Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Wisdom of a Mother


Over two thousand years ago, during the Warring States Period in China, a simple old woman had the common sense to realize that people need to be decently fed.

Zi Fa was a general in the State of Chu. In a battle with the State of Qin, his food supplies were running out and he had to dispatch one of his men back home and asked the King of Chu for fresh supplies.

While he was there the subordinate paid a courtesy call to the mother of General Zi Fa.

The mother asked, “How are the conditions of the soldiers?”

“The food situation is very tight. The men could only have some beans and grains,” the subordinate said.

“How about your general?”

“Don’t worry ma’am. Our General has Braised Meat to go with his fragrant rice.”

“Oh“ the mother said, shaking her head.

Not long after, General Zi Fa scored a decisive victory over the Qin army and he returned to his country a hero.

However, when he went to his own house, he found the gate locked and he was not allowed in.

His mother then sent a messenger to relay him her message:

“When Gou Jian, the King of Yue, was fighting the State of Wu, someone donated a cask of excellent wine. He poured the wine into the river and together with his men, he drank from the river. Would there be any taste of wine left? Of course not! But the morale of the men had increased five-fold.

Later somebody donate him some bags of grain. He divided them among his soldiers. Would the grain be enough to lessen their hunger? Of course not! But their battle resolve has increased ten-fold.

“In your case, while your men starved, you feasted. Why?

Did not the Book of Songs advised, “Don’t enjoy yourself too much, only then can the good man be peaceful and relaxed.”

Is your behaviour at the war-front something to be proud of? You sent your men to die and yet you live in comfort. Even though the war was won it has nothing to do with you but your men’s valour.

You are not my son. Don’t come home.”


The moral of the story is: all leaders who can influence the life of others must always think of the lowest denominator. No matter how rich we feel, there will always be a group of people struggling to survive. This is especially so when the income gap keeps widening more and more and the lower income group’s wages fall lower and lower.

By Dr Wong Wee Nam

Monday, October 25, 2010

Lucky Dog



Even a dog has feelings...

After he has undergone so much trials to get home to his owner with the winning ticket, he felt really betrayed to see him adopted a cat instead!!

So, he turn around and give the winning ticket to the homeless man who showed him a little kindness.

One of the best advertisement that I have seen. Enjoy!!

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Living a Five Star Life



Excerpt from: Living a Five Star Life,
by Betty Mahalik

In this day and age, we are surrounded by messages that virtually scream, "Your life would be perfect if..." My life would be perfect if I had a different job, a different house, car, nose, spouse, bank account (fill in the blank). Or my life would be perfect if I could be like some celebrity whose life appears so well-ordered and perfect-o. This week I encourage you to stop playing "my life would be perfect if," and start playing "my perfect life." What's the difference? Three things: being in the present, an attitude of gratitude, taking action with what's available now.

When we're caught up in the "my life would be perfect if" trap, we've lost touch with the present. And the moment we detach from the present, we can no longer practice gratitude. Think about it: it's difficult to be grateful for what you don't have...and what you don't have is always somewhere out in future-ville.

Look around you right now. Think of 10 things you're grateful for. Do you have a roof over your head and food to eat? I'm guessing the answer is yes. Do you have at least a few good friends or close relationships? Then appreciate them too, right now. Keep going, and practice being in the present and being grateful for what is here and now at least a couple times a day.

You're also probably sitting there thinking "yes but." Yes, but I want more money, a better relationship, more time to travel, to be thinner, happier or whatever. It's one of the great mysteries I'll never figure out. The minute you stop focusing on what you lack, start focusing on what you've already got, and add the "magic" ingredient of action, you actually begin to attract more of what you want. It's an amazing formula for really living your perfect life!

Let's say you want to lose weight or get in better shape, but you don't have an hour a day to spend exercising at the gym. Therefore, you've pretty well resigned yourself to not losing weight or getting in shape. What if you had five minutes though...just about everyone can find five minutes to exercise, stretch, walk around the block or walk the dog. Would you be willing to be grateful for five minutes and make the best possible use of it? Therein lies the beginning of your perfect life!

A simple formula may help you remember how to apply this principle:

The present + an attitude of gratitude
+ positive action
= my perfect life.


Try it for a day.

Each time you start dreaming about how perfect your life would be if...come back to this moment, give thanks for what is, and do one thing to perfect what you have and who you are right now. There's a saying that "when the student is ready, the teacher appears." If you're ready to start perfecting your life, your teachers are all around you.

What are you waiting for?

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Do Re Mi - Sound of Music



Ah, it always takes the spontanity of young people to really be Present.

And live in the Present moment.

This took place in Central Station Antwerp, Belgium.

Really makes your day...

Monday, October 11, 2010

Disconnect To Connect



Beautiful and meaningful video from Thailand.

How true it is - technology can make you disconnect from reality.

So, switch it off and be present to the beauty and the people around you.

Be Mindful

Thursday, October 7, 2010

What If God Was One Of Us?




How would you treat God if He exists in every innocent children out there in the world?

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Anthem - That's How The Light Gets In



Beautiful song by Leonard Cohen.

There is no perfection in the world.

It is because of imperfection that the beauty is revealed.

Therefore, do not strive for perfection.

Strive to live fully alive now, in the present.